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*Updated*Part 2 - Think you are safe, think again
(PLEASE READ AS THIS COULD SAFE YOU OR YOUR OWN CHILDS LIFE)
Those who know me know I am not your typical girl, I am not in the salon weekly getting my nails done, and a pedicure, I am not materialist, with diamond jewelry on. I was born and raised on the Westside of town, with the rest of the Mexican Gangsters.
I spent 15 years in an abusive relationship, I been arrested from assault, criminal damage to driving on a suspended license. I have been a suspect in many things from robbery to ****** with a girl in high school. All of this is public record, if you doubt me then search for me, if you are good you will find I am more then you think.
I have been in more fights then I can remember some I won, some I lost, I been jumped, attacked, shot at, stabbed, and have all the scars to show it. When I was younger if you wanted to find me you had to be walking the streets from dusk until dawn as I was running around dealing drugs. I am not sweet and innocent and never in my life ever claimed to be.
What happened to me did not faze me that much I am not writing all of this for people to feel sorry for me, or to send me money. I am writing this to make people who are not as strong as I am who cannot fight back, aware of what can happen to you if you are not aware of your surrounding, especially on line.
Those who want to cause trouble, start drama, or talk ****, please move on, I am not going to play that game it is an old burnt out one that you need to put back on the top shelf of the closet to collect dust.
MOVE ON!
BUT
The person who searched for me was not a hater, it was someone who wanted me for other reasons, I did not have a fight online with him, we did not exchange heated words, and he was not the reason I deleted my account.
Here is the step-by-step way he found me, and it is creepy as hell knowing that he took a few pieces of me and made a puzzle of a map to my home.
First, I did not have what city I lived in on my profile, it said I live in Ghetto, Arizona, I did not have my last name, or first name but he figured it all out on his own.
He found out my fist name by a comment a friends left, then he figured out what my last name was from my nickname.
Now he had my first and last name.
IF YOU THINK YOU ARE SAFE BECAUSE YOU HAVE YOUR PROFILE ON PRIVATE. THINK AGAIN BECAUSE ONCE YOU CLICK ON THAT PERSONS PAGE AND THEY HAVE A TRACKER, THEY GOT YOU!
He had a tracker, so he knew my IP address, and what city I live in.
NOW HE HAS MY FIRST, LAST NAME, MY CITY, AND STATE WITH IP ADDRESS.
This is where yahoo comes in as he searched for me on yahoo personal search, found a listing with my name with in my city and state.
He began to call those numbers listed! I have had a few number changes so there were a few numbers for him to call, plus another girl with my name lives in my city and he called her as well. After no luck getting me on the phone, and Johnny telling him he had the wrong number, he searched for me more.
He did a search for my nickname brooksie, he found my other blogs, and he found a piece of the puzzle that would give him confirmation of my address and my unit number.
He found my flickr account, which was public, with many photos of me and my family on it. One of my photos had a photo of me and my son at Halloween, next to me is three numbers, which was my unit number.
Now, from phone number search, he had my address, and now from Flickr, he had my unit number.
THEN THE PUBLIC RECORD SEARCH CAME TO CONFIRM IT ALL!
(PLEASE NOTE~~ I took out her county)
******** County has a website with public records, you can search by name and it will give you anyone's information, including there ***** address! He searched my name, and since I just refinanced my townhome this past year, he had confirmation on my address and that I still lived there.
That is when the certified letter came, when he saw I got it, but did not call him, email him or IM him as he asked he packed up his **** and came for me.
He did a Google map search, which gave him a map of my townhome, and directions to my home.
He showed up to talk to me, not to kill me, rape me, or harm me but to talk! When he saw me kissing Johnny in the parking lot when I was on my way to the store he got pissed because I did not tell him I had a boyfriend, little did he know he is just my best friend!
He waited for me to get back, took the bulb out of my porch light, threw a rock at my neighbors to knock hers out, and waited for me to return.
The man who showed up at my home was not the man on myspace, it showed up later that he went on match.com and found a profile of a person and stole his photos and used them on myspace as his own. Therefore, it looked like it was a real profile, he had many photos of him and his friends, and little did I know he stole them from someone else.
YOU NEVER KNOW WHOM YOU ARE TALKING TOO!
All in all, you are not safe on myspace, it is so ******* easy to track you from a tracker, and the internet is full of public records that will lead you to anyone if you wanted. You might not have your first and last name on your page, but your comments can lead to you.
If your friends says hey lets meet at a certain place, that person can go there and find you, follow you home and now know where you live. Your own photos can lead to you, if they are taking in a public place, if you have photos of yourself half naked on the internet, thinking you are safe you are not and you are just asking for trouble, because you never know what crazy person is looking at you, and studying your page to find you!
DO NOT BE STUPID AND JUST LET SOMEONE HAVE A REASON TO SEEK YOU, AS IT IS EASIER THEN YOU THINK AS ALL THEY NEED IS A NAME, AND CITY WHERE YOU LIVE.
The main reason why I am posting this is not for me or dumb girls on here half-naked, I am posting this because most of you are parents, your own children are on here, and all they have to do is click on someone's page to be a target!
I am a strong woman, I can fight and defend myself, but what if I was a child, or a girl who is more of a material girl then the tom girl I am!
I just showed you how easy it was for someone to find me, now how easy it is for him or her to find you.
I ASK THAT YOU PLEASE PASS THIS BLOG ON, LINK IT IN A BULLETIN OR BLOG BECAUSE IT IS NOT SAFE OUT THERE AND HOW MANY FRIENDS OR LOVED ONES DO YOU HAVE ON HERE THAT ARE OPEN TARGETS FOR A NUT CASE!
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